So, when he heard that Lazarus was ill, he stayed two days longer in the place where he was. (John 11:5-6)
Now Jesus loved Martha, Mary and Lazarus.
So, because He loved them He stayed two days longer in the place where He was.
I'll rephrase again:
Martha and Mary were begging Jesus to come to them because their brother was dying. Now Jesus loved them SO he stayed two days longer in the place where He was and didn't come.
Jesus 'ignored' their plea for two days because He loved them.
When we feel like God is not answering our prayer that is because He loves us. I am sure that for Martha and Mary those two days when Jesus didn't come were the two longest days of their lives. When Lazarus died they were probably overwhelmed with sorrow, questions and doubts. Why hadn't Jesus come? Why didn't He come to heal Lazarus before it was too late?
Because it wasn't too late. And that is what Jesus wanted to show.
“This illness does not lead to death. It is for the glory of God, so that the Son of God may be glorified through it.” - Jesus
So when you feel like you are waiting, waiting, waiting, without any answer from God... know that He knows and that He is waiting with you. Know that He does this just because of His love. It is for the glory of God.
(And here ends my little Bible study for the day.)